Text Your Ex Back Review | Why Text?
A few days ago I gave you a look inside the introduction section of the Text Your Ex Back Michael Fiore program. I took a look at who Michael Fiore is and how his texting expertise can help you in your own relationships. I also discussed whether or not the Text Your Ex Back program is the right program for you.
Today, I’d like to continue with my Text Your Ex Back review and dive into what Michael Fiore refers to as “the magic of texting”.
Why Text Your Ex Back? Isn’t Texting Supposed To Be Bad After A Breakup?
“I’ve already tried everything else. Why will texting make any difference in helping me get my ex back?”
If you find yourself asking the above question (or any variation thereof), then the next section of the Michael Fiore Text Your Ex Back program will be a big help.
In “The Magic Of Texting” section of the Text Your Ex Back program, Michael discusses the reasons why text messages can be such a powerful tool to help you get your ex back.
I think this section is important because it dispels a lot of the myths about texting currently being passed through many relationship circles. If you’ve spent any length of time reading advice about how to get your ex back, then you’ve probably realized most relationship experts advise against texting after a breakup.
They have their reasons. And some of those reasons are good.
In order for texting to be a good fit, a few conditions need to exist. For example…
- You should only try to text your ex back after you’ve given the relationship time to cool down. Following a no contact rule for about a month before texting is still a good rule of thumb.
- Text messages should be reserved for creating a positive experience between you and your ex. Never use text messages to fight or argue about the relationship.
- Your text messages should always have a purpose and a goal in mind. Never text your ex after a breakup “just because”. These texts tend to turn into what Michael Fiore refers to as “nothing texts”, and they do nothing to enhance your relationship or improve your chances of getting your ex back.
- Text messages should be sent with the mindset that your old relationship is dead. Text messages shouldn’t be used to repair your old relationship. They should be used to create a new, more positive relationship with your ex.
Texting itself isn’t bad. The problem is most people don’t know the right way to text an ex. And when you don’t say the right things in the right way, you risk making the relationship worse. This is why most experts argue against it.
But Michael Fiore sees it different. According to Michael, texting is “the secret path to your ex’s subconscious mind”. And Text Your Ex Back is the guide that helps you tap into your ex’s subconscious mind one text message at a time.
The Top Reasons Texting Works To Help You Get Your Ex Back
In Text Your Ex Back, Michael does a great job of revealing many of the reasons why texting is so effective at helping you get your ex back. But I actually think this section of the program falls a bit short. In my mind there are even more reasons to focus on texting when you want your ex back that Mike Fiore doesn’t discuss.
After reading through the Text Your Ex Back program and brainstorming some ideas on my own, here are some of my top reasons texting is an absolutely awesome tool for getting your ex back…and why you shouldn’t write it off as being some sort of “gimmick”.
- Texting gives you almost unlimited access to your ex. People are addicted to their cell phones and have them within arm’s reach nearly every minute of every day. This gives you an incredible opportunity to reconnect.
- Text messaging is personal and private.
- Text messaging is direct one on one communication. This helps create a sense of intimacy you can’t get through other forms of communication.
- When done in the right way (like how texting is taught in the Text Your Ex Back program), text messages are simple and subtle. They can be effective with or without a response.
- The right kinds of text messages are nonconfrontational which helps create a more positive experience between you and your ex.
- Texting can progress at its own pace. You can build intimacy, attraction, and desire over time.
- Texting gives you time to think and respond. The ability to STOP and THINK about what you’re going to say before you say it is a HUGE advantage when it comes to any attempt to text your ex back. There’s much less risk of saying something you’ll regret later.
- Texting is unobtrusive. People tend to text at places like work, school, and in other instances where talking on the phone or other forms of communication may not be possible.
- Texting makes it easier to express your feelings and emotions. Many people say things over text they wouldn’t have the courage to say face to face.
- Texting gives you a greater chance of being heard. This allows your messages to have more impact. For example, if you call your ex they may not answer, but if you text your ex, there’s a good chance they’ll read your message even if they don’t respond.
Hopefully the above list helps you see how text messages sent from your cell phone can be a big help in your ability to get your ex back. Statistics show that the average teenager sends about 300 texts per day and even adults admit to spending less time “talking” and more time “texting”. The opportunity to seduce your ex back into your life has never been bigger.
Ultimately, your ability to text your ex back will be determined by how you approach and respond to your ex through the text messages you send. The Text Your Ex Back Michael Fiore program does most of the work for you and is about as close as it comes to a “push button” or “copy and paste” solution.
Next time we’ll take a look at some of the things you’ll want to keep in mind before you start texting your ex.
See you in the next post,
Derek
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My ex boyfriend hasn’t been texting me since july of 2011 and I have been texting him for years anything and everything, from past present to future. Before he stopped texting he was using mean words for about a year. The woman that he is seeing is very controlling and she is reading his text, I found out from her 2days ago, and yesterday he accidentally text me instead of someone else, I text a nice msg back, he then text a story, said it was made up bs and told me to enjoy and to get help. Do you think text your ex back can work for me? My ex told me last night he will never text or respond again and that I’m wasting my time. It has been 5yrs that I’ve been trying to get him back. And this other lady came into his life after he left me. I talked to psychics and they told me he is not in love with her, but I know she is a fake and she doesn’t truly love him and he still has feelings for me, which leaves me confused becuase then why are we not together. Im wondering about paying someone to do energy work? Do you think texting your ex back would help me?
Hey Michelle,
In my opinion, you shouldn’t be wasting your time on this guy or trying to use Text Your Ex Back to get him back. He…
1.) Sends you mean, awful texts
2.) He sends you made up stories
3.) He tells you to “enjoy and to get help”
Someone who treats you like this doesn’t deserve you.
How well can this work on a Legal Separation after 33 years of marriage???
Hey Rev,
That’s a difficult situation, but not an impossible one. Michael Fiore’s Text Your Ex Back program teaches you how to slowly open your ex up to the idea of being with you again over time.
No one can GUARANTEE you will get your ex back and Text Your Ex Back isn’t a magic bullet that can solve everything overnight, but it has worked for a lot of different people in a lot of different situations.
As long as your ex still shows emotion toward you (even if it’s negative emotion), there’s a good chance you can turn things in your favor and win her back. What you don’t want is apathy from your ex. An apathetic ex is the hardest to get back.
What if your ex has you blocked from texting his phone, is an email just as good?
Hi Donna,
Great question! The techniques in Michael Fiore’s Text Your Ex Back program work great with text messages and also with email. I’ve been in touch with several different people who have adapted the program to email because their ex didn’t text much, their ex had changed their phone number, or they had other reasons they couldn’t use text messages.
That’s another great thing about the program. You can adapt it to other forms of communication if you need to.