A couple days ago I talked about some of the Michael Fiore text messages you’ll find inside the Text Your Ex Back program.
Across The Bow Texts
Best Of The Relationship Texts
Intimacy Booster Texts
Today I’ll continue with that theme as I take a closer look at a couple other Text Your Ex Back examples called green eyed monster texts and emotional honesty texts.
However, before I do that I thought I’d get a little “interactive” with this blog so I’ve posted a short video for you about 3 types of text messages you should never send to your ex.
How many of them have you already sent?
Before Michael Fiore set me straight on a lot of this stuff, this type of video would have made me go, “Oh S**t!”. I would have been guilty of pretty much all of those.
If you find yourself in the same boat, don’t panic. It’s not the end of the world (that’s coming on December 21…or so they say), but you should definitely look for some better options in the texting department. Hopefully what I’m about to discuss next will help.
One thing to keep in mind is that it’s Michael’s texting “system” and not just individual texts that makes the Text Your Ex Back program so effective for many people. There are a ton of different texts you can copy and paste from the program or come up with on your own, but it’s the combination of different kinds of texts and how you send them that ultimately makes the difference.
What On Earth Is Michael Fiore’s Green Eyed Monster Text?Most people are familiar with the concept of the “green eyed monster”, but for those of you who aren’t, the term refers to jealousy and not to those horrible little creatures that lurked under your bed and horrified you as a child.
I find it easiest to think about these Michael Fiore text examples as “jealousy texts”…and they are probably the most controversial text of the entire Text Your Ex Back PDF.
Why controversial? Because when done the way Michael teaches, they can be one of the most powerful forms of text message you’ll send that can quickly convince your ex to reconsider the breakup. But when done wrong, they are one of the fastest ways you can alienate your ex for good.
I’m just glad Michael is around to teach us all how to walk that fine line so that we can use jealousy texts to our advantage and not have them act like the world’s most powerful “ex repellant”.
When describing how to formulate green-eyed monster texts Michael Fiore says…
“It basically involves letting your ex in on the positive aspects of your post-breakup life, while subtly turning the screws in their heart. (Notice how you’re combining jealousy with connection and the reminder that you know them well in a really interesting way.)”
Basically these types of texts work because they allow you to use jealousy in a positive way that makes you appear more attractive and valuable to your ex. Michael talks about the concept of “social proof” and how it’s a very powerful force you can use to your advantage.
Make sure to follow Michael’s advice exactly with these texts. Awesome stuff if you use it right. And whatever you do, don’t send something to your ex like, “I totally rocked it last night at the club with this super hottie. It was awesome.” Not good. Not good at all.
Getting Real And Laying It All On The Line With Emotional Honesty Texts
Once you’ve come to terms with why your breakup happened and have worked your way through some of the other texts in the Text Your Ex Back ebook, there may come a time for laying it all on the line and speaking from your heart.
As Michael discusses some of the previous texts we’ve talked about, he says…
“All of this stuff works REALLY well…But sometimes you just have to cut past the bullshit and tell your ex how you really feel. No excuses, no blaming, no fighting, no crap. You just take out your cell phone (and with your thumb shaking and lip quivering) tell your ex THE TRUTH.”
These types of texts are often the triggering mechanism that is required to make the emotional connection that can get your ex to ask to see you again.
Oh, and I should mention, if you’re a guy these can work even better.
The reason for this is…
A lot of guys have a hard time opening up and expressing their feelings. There are a ton of women out there in relationships who desperately wish their guy would just put down his wall and tell her how he truly feels…as long as it’s in a positive, confident, constructive way, and not some sort of desperate plea full of begging and pleading.
And you’ve got to be SINCERE.
No making up crap you think your ex wants to hear, ok? Michael Fiore’s Text Your Ex Back isn’t a program for people looking for an ego trip or who want to try and manipulate an ex back into a relationship.
In this section of the PDF, Michael Fiore breaks down emotional honesty texts into several different sub categories and gives plenty of examples for you to hone in on.
Really good stuff and even better because he goes over some responses you might get from your ex and how you can reply to those. That’s a huge help that most of these “get your ex back” type programs never even mention.
And if I can help with anything or answer any questions, just let me know.
See you in the next post,
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